Monday, April 02, 2007
And so, here da story goes.... About da thing dat i was so fuckin stressed about, my engagement. It was really a last minute thing which i initially never knew about. Seriously.
Bear wif me for this long entry. Coz, i'm tired of repeating da same story when ppl ask why so sudden n stuffs. Criter panjang babe.
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Ok here goes...
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I got a call from my erm...bf then..last Sat, 24/03 and he all of sudden said 'Eh my mOm wanna talk to ur mOm'. N i was like 'WHUAT?!' And so i passed da fOn and bla bla bla yadda yadda yadda.. They talked.
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By then i knew what it is all about. And his mom said dat he wanted it to be by dat week itself b4 my sis and family leave to Brunei. Its juz so sudden. Yes, sudden and shocking for me. Surprised too.
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He didn't even discuss wif me about wanting to get engaged. I mean, yeah we did discuss back in 2006 but never did i expect it to be dat sudden. He planned it all on his own wifout my knOwledge.
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So, everything was konfermed by both sides to be held on Friday night, 30/03 and then we went searching for my ring. I was so stressed bout it dat i couldn't feel da excitement. Not at all. And actually, da plan was juz to sarong cincin. But!!!! It turned out to be a so-called big thang. Not dat big but, there was gift exchange and all.
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When i got to noe dat there will be some gifts from his side, i started to panic. Coz i tot it was only a small thing. I panicked, ordered da engagement cake n went searching for stuffs for gubahan. Chocs, sweets and stuffs. And i spend like a lot on da chocs and sweets but in da end i didnt make use all of it coz i received a lot of gubahan from my frens and relatives.
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All in all, there was 13 dulang for him. Goodness! Knowing dat i got alot of it, i decided not to make anymore gubahan wif da chocs and sweets dat i got. All i gave him was, da cake, da Oakley specs and 1 of da gubahan.
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And da makeup, a fren of mine, who's a freelance mak andam offered to help me. So, i agreed to it since i was sooo stressed up n did not have time to consider and think coz of da limited time dat i have. Oh and da makeup's ok cept for da hair. I think dat its a bit too over and too over accessorize. I looked in da mirror and talked to myself 'Ako ni nak tunang ke nak kahwin?' Hahahahaha!
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Aiyo! From juz a small thing, it turns out differently and unexpectedly. I'm so so tired from da busy preparation n all dat i did not have enuff sleep and rest from last Wednesday till today. Physically and mentally i feel tired. But watever it is, i am glad dat it is all over and dat it all went well. Syukur Alhamdullilah.
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Phew! So like yah, datz da whole story. And i wanna thank all of my frens who've helped me wif everything. U noe who u are. Thank u so so so so so so much.
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And also to da ones dat attended, which is my fiance's childhood frens and their partners who 'escorted' his family and my close gfs'. And to da rest who weren't invited, dun worry, u guys will be invited when da time comes. Insya-Allah. :)
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Oh ya, i've yet to upload da pics. Later la eh. ;)
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And about my sis. She's still here wif her daughter but my bro-in-law is already in Brunei. There was a last minute change. My sis will fly off next week after my bro-in-law settled everythin there, da house, car and etc.
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Sent him to da airport this morning. N yeah, i cried ok. He went off and i cried, i can't imagine how it'll be when its my sis's turn.
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Ok now i realllllyy need to sleep coz i have to renew da insurance and road tax tomoro... Ahhh damn! How i wish i could rest da whole day!!!!
RX Queen